I have been asked many times: what are the 10 signs of a
cheating husband?
Look...you probably have that gut feeling telling you something isn't right.
You probably know it.. he IS cheating.
But sometimes, you find it hard to believe your husband is
cheating on you - as if you have been blinded - or you choose to turn a
blind eye towards this.
Now I hope you manage to take your blinders off - because
you deserve to know the truth.
Just to start you off, here are the top ten signs of a
cheating husband:
1) The sex - he initiates sex more often.
This is a common scenario: your husband often gets home and
initiate sex, his drive seems to have gone up quite a bit,
and the funny thing is...you can feel it, it is just 'Sex'- and I mean without the emotional 'making love' component in it.
2) He hardly wants to be intimate anymore.
This is related to number 1. This depends on whether or not
he gets enough of it with the other woman. The basic rule
is that if he has enough, he will not request more.
If he's been fooling around with her without actually
getting enough sex...Number 1 applies.
3) Looks - he takes care of his personal appearance more.
A cheating husband will make sure his hair looks right, and
will start taking more interest going to the gym. (He can
even use that time to have that secret rendesvous..who
knows)
4) More frequent overtime and office functions
This is definitely a sign especially if his work is just
'customer service'. And if he is a professional, his work
hours get even longer. There are more 'colleague
farewells', and of course more unexplained business trips
outside office hours too.
Also, he cannot wait for his next business trip (as if he
doesn't have enough already)
5) He takes up REGULAR hobby that doesn't involve you
This regular hobby can include the gym (if you can call
that health hobby), the library, jogging or some kind of
sport. The less you are interested in it, the more chance
of him taking it.
6) His cell phone has become his second shadow
A cheating husband needs to take his cell phone everywhere
(Yes even to the bathroom with the door locked from the
inside). This is just in case the other woman call or it's
for him to contact that other woman.
7) He eats less, or he has stomach upset
Not so smart cheater will have dinner with his secret lover
until he is bloated, and won't have the chance to touch
your wonderful cooking.
8) You catch some lies - white lies, big lies..
You realise he's been lying and start getting better at
covering them up. He doesn't want to have lengthy eye
contact with you, and avoids the topic infidelity
altogether. And when you push him to the edge ready to
prove that he's lying, he'll get defensive or very angry.
9) Emails - New email address, new passwords, no history
He is using the computer a lot. When you walk in the room
he minimises all windows - or closes them altogether. When
he finally gets off the computer nothing is left in the
history. All temporary cookies are deleted too.
He has new email addresses and change all passwords to the
email address that you know about.
10) Obvious evidence
This can be perfume on his laundry items, lipstick on his
collar or shirt, or even the fact that he wants to do his
own laundry. Hair can also be evidence (Like...you see
blonde hair in his car, and your hair is black)
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On top of these signs of infidelity, you'll find that a cheating
husband starts to day dream a lot, talking much less and lose interest
in you or your family.
He takes extra interest on your schedule though. He'll even
ask you twice in the same day: 'Honey, when are you gonna
get your car fixed?' or 'Honey, when are you taking that
overseas trip?'
Still not sure? Ok he must have accummulated these signs for you to start getting suspicious.
